Going To Vegas As A Couple

Tips For First Time Couples

It doesn’t matter if you have been to Vegas a million times before, or this is your first time, there are some very specific pointers you need to remember as a couple. Because for every couple that has the time of their relationship lives while in Vegas, there are those couples that completely fall apart, and the fracture begins in Sin City (or it’s the final straw that breaks the relationship camel’s back). So, if you’re looking to maximize your time with some couple friendly adult entertainment without bringing about relationship issues, here is what you need to know.

Focus On Your Partner

It’s so easy to just let your hormones get the better of you. After all, you’ve already agreed to visit Las Vegas with your partner, which means they know there’s going to be some adult play going on. But that still doesn’t mean you can just lunge at the first stripper that crosses your path. It’s no longer an individual game but a team game. And if you do your own thing, the team will fall apart. 

Instead, you need to focus on the pleasure of your partner. This is especially the case if you have to do some convincing for them to come with you (if you find yourself on your knees, begging and pleading, this might not be the kind of destination for you). You can find the best Vegas strip club for couples in the entire city, but it’s all for not if you don’t make sure they feel appreciated, and that the attention is on them.  Don’t worry, you’ll receive what’s coming to you. That isn’t an issue. What could be an issue though, is rising tensions and jealousy if you don’t focus on your partner. Just remember, when you go home, you’re returning with your partner, not the stripper or the escort. Do what you can to make your partner happy, not the live entertainer.

For The Dudes Out There

Don’t dominate the activities and don’t force your partner to do anything. So, when you’re walking past a popular strip club, don’t grab her and drag her inside. That’s a lot of pressure for your partner, especially if they are not yet mentally up for it. It might take some mental convincing on their part, especially if they haven’t been to a strip club before. If you are in town with a woman, it is very easy for some women to feel self-conscious about themselves. They are going to walk into a club where most of the women are in the best shape of their lives, they have incredible bodies, and they are just oozing with sexuality. For some women, this isn’t an issue, but for others it’s a trigger, and forcing them into such a situation won’t be good for anyone. 

Instead, you can mention it in passing. Toss it into a conversation and read her response. And don’t just focus on what she says. That’s amateur stuff. You need to pick up on her body language, whether if there are any shifts in how she moves, and if there are changes in the conversation after it’s mentioned. 

The best way to go is to have her come up with the couple friendly club idea. Or at least have it seem like it’s her idea. You don’t have to go psychotic or neurotic with this. Just park your car near a strip club on the strip, so you have to walk past it. See if she says anything. It’s basically bringing it up in a conversation without you actually bringing it up in a conversation. 

And, as always, make sure to compliment her. Tell her she’s beautiful and how amazing she is. Build her up. Because if she hears you saying things to the escorts but you don’t pay the same compliments to her, there will be trouble later (for that matter, hold on to the compliments directed at the working girls in Vegas. They don’t need to hear them from you, but your wife or girlfriend does). 

One For The Ladies

If you’re out with your man at a strip club, this might be the first time you’ve ever been in such an establishment with your significant other. It is an interesting experience to say the least (especially if this is you are a relative newcomer to the world of strip clubs, with or without your boyfriend or husband). 

There might initially be a big of awkwardness in the air between the two of you. Some guys might just dive right in, as if he’s just there with one of the guys (or even by himself). Other mights might act like they’re walking on thin ice and don’t want to make any sudden movements, out of fear of offending you with their actions or decisions. It really is a tight rope to walk, but it doesn’t need to be a challenging one. 

The best way to handle this is to make all the interior decisions. Now, don’t pull this out of thin air once you’re inside. Instead, when agreeing to the strip club, make sure you put into the agreement that you want to pick the girls. Whether the girls are for you, for him, or you want to experience some couple friendly erotica together, you need to be in charge of this decision. It will make life easier in the long run. 

If you let him pick the women, he might end up picking someone you don’t like, or even someone that makes you feel self-conscious. You don’t want to second-guess all of his decisions and what he’s attracted to based on the girls he selects. He may have simply picked out the first girl that walked past, or he selected someone the complete opposite of you just because they are the complete opposite of you. It doesn’t matter, because plenty of women will start second-guessing everything, not only about their man but about themselves. And let’s face it. Nobody wants to be bogged down with doubt either during a vacation or following it. 

Thankfully, you can cut all of this doubt and second-guessing out if you take control and you make the decisions. 

Of course, don’t just hand out the dances to your man. Make sure to order dances for yourself. That’s why you’re there, after all! You’re not just giving your man some kind of gift. You’re buying the two of you a gift, which means you need to enjoy the time with your own dancers. And it doesn’t matter if you Googled “couples club near me” or you put in your research and read through the ultimate erotic guide Las Vegas has available, make sure both of you are receiving dances.  One last thing to keep in mind ladies. If, for whatever reason, you don’t feel comfortable, let your man know. This should be a no-questions-asked kind of thing, so make sure this is established in the ground rules. If you’re not comfortable, he shouldn’t want to be there. Now, there might be an initial feeling of discomfort when you enter if you’re not accustomed to strip clubs, so give it a minute. However, if you begin to grow uncomfortable, or if you just want to leave any time, tell your man. It doesn’t need to be a big scene. Just pull him in, maybe give him a little nibble on the ear, and tell him you’d like to leave. From there, finish your drink (because it probably cost a pretty penny), and head out.